As SCBWI expanded in Australia, the first national conferences were convened. They were different to the CBCA conferences which were often pitched more for teachers and librarians than for creators (though they were still fabulous). SCBWI conferences (held then at the Hughenden in Sydney) were intimate events of creators and industry professionals. The programs were great, but the social gatherings were wonderful. There was sharing, singing, dancing, singing and dancing. It was an opportunity to mix with people doing the same thing, to talk shop. The value of the conferences wasn’t so much about the pitching opportunities for me, although if asked, or if I booked, I did that too. I discovered that, for me, the best conferences were those I went to with no expectations. At all. And somehow being having no expectations, wonderful things always happened (even contracts!) The programs were always interesting, a mix of new information, new ways to work and refining of existing knowledge. I loved the chance to get to know people, to spend time with them. It was like the walls came down between the ‘us’ and ‘them’ (insert whichever ‘us’ and ‘them’ that seemed currently relevant) and we were all on the same page (see what I did there?) sharing meals, sharing story. We were all just people doing work we love. It was also a chance to hone my craft, learn things I didn’t realise I needed to know, soak up knowledge. One afternoon tea, I swapped my name badge with that of an editor and immediately she started trying to intensely ‘pitch’ a story to me. It was hilarious, but also a very instructive moment, a reminder that behind that desk, that email, sits a person doing their best in a really busy job. Each conference, each meeting buoyed and supported me and gave me the courage to keep going when it seemed impossible to do so. The US SCBWI site offered publishing guides, a magazine and online resources. The local sites kept me up to date with who was doing what and what else might be fun to explore (courses, events, resources). ‘There Was an Old Sailor’ won the first ever Crystal Kite Award – although Glenda Millard won the first peer-voted Australian SCBWI Award.